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==== Detailed description with examples in awareness raising ==== | ==== Detailed description with examples in awareness raising ==== | ||
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The rule of thumb is Work on the taboo, here more on the social background: And please: TABOO! | The rule of thumb is Work on the taboo, here more on the social background: And please: TABOO! | ||
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+ | ==== Working on taboos – my rule of thumb came from real life: ==== | ||
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+ | **In palmistry, the thumb represents the self,** and in my rule of thumb, it represents sexuality. No places to learn, no nice language, but targeted marketing and massive personal destruction through incentives, morals, and guilt are the clearest signs. | ||
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+ | **The index finger is used for you; in my rule of thumb,** it stands for money, which determines our relationships. From sayings such as “money ruins friendships” and “you don't talk about money, you have money” to questions about wealth and class differences and the mental prohibition of the word “capitalism, | ||
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+ | **The middle finger is associated with the topic of religion or the meaning of life.** Either the ready-made package of a denomination or the do-it-yourself version of atheism and free thinking; baptism, initiation, wedding rites, and funerals included or not... an open conversation beyond the vocabulary of pastors is hardly possible. | ||
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+ | **The ring finger is associated with long-term relationships, | ||
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+ | **The little finger takes care of the remaining topics of deviant behavior:** being different. Lesbian or gay, disabled or colored, of a different faith or unsuitable for society, all outsiders as well as celebrities included. The fear of the unknown remains speechless and aggressive, treated superficially in jokes and insinuations. | ||
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+ | === Common characteristics of all taboos: === | ||
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+ | There is a lack of language to address them accurately, while at the same time there is a chattiness of distraction. Paulo Freire uses the terms ‘myths’ and ‘culture of silence’: | ||
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+ | We always have good reasons not to talk about it. If we want to anyway, it doesn' | ||
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+ | It's good to know a lot about them, but it's as pointless as armed combat against armored vehicles, like the military against terrorism, to want to fight them with force. Because they are fed by our own fear, we can only outsmart them gently and according to their own principles, with nonviolent methods and intelligence. | ||
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+ | Translated from https:// | ||
+ | and [[die_arbeit_am_tabu]] | ||
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+ | More at https:// |